More about Baby Shower

Well tonight I was watching tv when the doorbell rang. It was Krystle and her mom, Rose. They had been to the Dollar Tree and bought all kinds of stuff for the shower. All the stuff is baby shower items and this is meant to be a housewarming too. Thats why we said "housewarming/baby shower" on all the invites.
I had meant for this thing to be classy but it seems they have other ideas. So I guess I'll have to go along with the party balloons, ice cream with the cake and punch, and streamers hanging all over the room.

Drama ! Drama!

Well, Krystle's mom just has to have her way with lots of drama thrown in too.
I had planned the housewarming/baby shower for Matt & Krystle, got them to pick a day and I found a time that would work with Matt's work schedule. So we tell Rose. She gets huffy saying she can't take a day off, but can take other days off, so what the hey! Well she tells Krystle in no uncertain terms that I am trying to take her place in Krystle's life. Huh, can't help the fact that Matt and Krystle both call us for help since when they call Rose she says she can't help or she promises to help then never shows.
Anyway, Rose had a hissy fit says she won't come to the shower because of me. Krystle talks to her (several phone calls all night long) and they decide to change the times for the shower but to still have it at my house. So I guess I must get ready to deal with more fireworks as I've already planned the event and all the foods.
Can't you tell, even though I'm trying to be nice, it still irks me that this is happening. And she will still get her way!

4th of July

Well we had a really good 4th. We were invited to Juanita and Fred's party. It started about 1 pm and was starting to break up around 7:30 pm when we left. There was lots of food, karaoke, and friends. I took lots of pictures with the professional digital camera Daddy left to me. I'm still trying to get used to it-going to take lots of practice.
Afterwards, I picked up Matt and Krystle to go see the city fireworks display at 9 pm. Then Matt decided to have his own fireworks show-bottle rockets and a tornado alley, which was really noisy.
All in all, had a really fun day!

Catch-up time

Well its been 2 years since I updated my blog. So much has happened.
My Dad died on my 53rd birthday-Feb 14 2010. I moved into his house for the last month of his life and took care of him.He had cancer so it was a long battle.
My kids have both moved out and are living close by, here in town. My youngest son, Matthew has a new girlfriend and they've been living together for 2 years. They are expecting my 1st grandchild, a girl, in September.
Tony, the oldest, is living with his girlfriend also. Right now , he is gone to summer camp with the National Guard.His girlfriend refuses to stay in the house alone for the 2 weeks so she moved back in with her mom til he gets back next weekend.

What the Hey???

Well, just a while ago I was running laundry and working round the house, when there was a knock at the door. You'll never guess who it was!! ANTHONY showed up at our door, walked right in like he'd never been gone. Got drink from the fridge, sat down in the den and started talking to his dad. I kept on cleaning in the kitchen. Wasn't quite sure how I'd react to him or if I'd blow up at him for his behavior.
He just said "Happy Mother's Day" to me and that was all that he said to me. He and his dasd talked but I wasn't listening. OMGosh !! What is going on here?? Still don't know quite what to think??

Family happenings update

Well, here it is April 29th and I've not heard from Anthony since January. Matt and I have seen him several times in traffic around town but not to speak. A friend said he contacted her business and said he was trying to make good on all his debts so I hope that's true. His bill collectors are still calling us here at the house.

But now to update on the rest of us. Chuck continues to regress into a hermit. He no longer wants to leave the house-much less do anything. He spends his days and nights connected to the computer-online gaming! We did make a trip to VA today to find out Voc. Rehab sent a request to OT (Occupational Therapy) to help provide necessary items for ADL (activities of daily living). We came home with several boxes with several more things to be delivered directly to our house.

Matt got to attend Prom-even though it wasn't his. He and Kristin, his gf, went to her prom. They were so cute!! He is so happy with her, and they are matched well. Both are tall-he is 6'5-1/2" and she is 5'11". She DOES tend to yak your ears off (LOL) but I think its just her nerves. See them here.

Big-time family upheaval

Well I guess you've wondered why there have been no blog entries for a while. It's really simple-our family is in a major upheaval mode.
I wrote last time about the turmoil with the boys and shakeup in their apartment. Well, it got worse!! Seems we found out by way of MySpace that Tony and the girl, Noelle, got married right after the 1st of January. I was against it to begin with-he'd not known her long enough and he was just reacting from his return from Iraq in October, among other things.
Found out the other day that he had skipped out on the rent at the apt. for 2 months, and written a bogus check for the 3rd month. How did I find out, you ask? Simple-the landlady called Matt here and told him as his name is also on the lease that he is responsible for his brother's actions. Anyway, he and Noelle have moved in with her family.
My hubby's actions are a different story though. He stays on the computer, playing online poker from the time he gets out of bed til the time he returns to it-sometimes going days w/o sleep or meds. I think it's a phase of his severe PTSD but I can't force him into treatment-not even with medical POA. The drs. and his therapists say he has to decide he needs help and be ready to follow through with it.So far, he's not at that point.